Saying Goodbye

Natalie Evelyn Teegarden passed away unexpectedly the afternoon of October 16th. She was in my arms and in no pain. I suppose that is the most one could hope for.

I so appreciate all the love and affection people have shown our daughter this year. Our family is blessed to be surrounded by the strength of others.

If I could, I would like to ask that when people share with us in the days to come that it is not suggested that there was a reason for her loss or that God needed her more than we did. Natalie was a very loved and desired child, she would have shared a wonderful life with us here on earth and that is all we wanted. Please forgive me my candor. It is just that I am broken in a million pieces right now and do not have it in me to nod along and agree when I do not. My child should still be here in my arms looking forward to an abundant life. I know it may be hard to find words, so please do not worry trying to find the perfect thing to say. What we need is to know that Natalie is loved, that she will be remembered and that her life meant something to others.

I have one other request. Over the past several months, we have been humbled and amazed at the people who knew Natalie, cared for her from afar and supported us. If you think of her in the coming days, please consider sending a postcard with the words "I know Natalie" to

Natalie Evelyn Teegarden
120 Parkwood Rd
Rochester, NY 14615

As I am here trying to make myself understand that she is physically no longer with us, I am so afraid that our daughter will be forgotten, or that proof of her life will not be known to others. It would mean the world to me to hold in my hands evidence that Natters is still in the hearts and minds of others.

Thank you thank thank you for never letting me think we were on this journey alone. I am so very sorry.